Meaningful Mondays - Arrows Out

“Can’t find gratitude today? Look anyway. The looking may be where gratitude begins.”

“When you can’t find something to be grateful for, look anyway.”

“It’s not finding gratitude that matters most; it’s remembering to look in the first place.”

Grateful FOR asks, ” What happened that deserves my gratitude?” Grateful IN asks, “Who will I choose to be in this moment?”

“Gratitude isn’t the reward we receive when circumstances improve. It is a way of being while our circumstances are unfolding.”

Guilt looks backward. Worry looks forward. Gratitude brings us into the NOW.

All choices happen in the moment where gratitude resides.

What if you’ve spent years looking for something that was never lost — only idle?

“Don’t wait for purpose to give you direction. Make a contribution—and let contribution reveal the direction.”
— Lee Brower

Maybe purpose isn’t something we find. Maybe purpose is something we activate.
— Lee Brower

“Happiness cannot be pursued; it must ensue.”
— Viktor Frankl

“In learning you will teach, and in teaching you will learn.”
— Phil Collins

“Wisdom held is inventory. Wisdom moved is a legacy.”
— Lee Brower

“A river doesn’t make its own water. Not one drop.”
— Lee Brower “Nobody is the river.

Everybody is a tributary.”
— Lee Brower

“Gratitude is not only the greatest of virtues, but the parent of all the others.”
– Cicero

“Don’t wait for answered prayers to become grateful. Let gratitude become your prayer.”

“What can I be grateful for today… before I know how today turns out?”

“Gratitude nurtures humility. It strengthens faith. It fuels generosity. It opens our hearts to compassion. It shapes our character.”

“Gratitude doesn’t change our circumstances. It changes us. How we see. How we choose. How we show up.”

“Character is what you do when no one is watching—and especially when no one is expecting.”
— Charles Swindoll (adapted)

“The true test of a man’s character is what he does when no one is watching.”
— John Wooden

“By small and simple things are great things brought to pass.”

Life doesn’t ask us to become someone new in moments of crisis. It asks us to remember who we’ve been becoming.

The greatest leaders don’t trust themselves to rise to the occasion. They prepare themselves to retrieve from a lifetime of intentional learning.

“This week, don’t ask yourself, ‘How will I handle the next crisis?’ Ask yourself, ‘What deposit am I making today that my future self will someday need to withdraw?’

“Extraordinary performance comes from ordinary moments that are intentionally harvested over many years.”
– Lee Brower

“Harvest the lesson before you leave the moment.”
– Lee Brower

I asked Warren Buffett what he considered the keys to his success. He shared three keys that reflect humility, gratitude, and stewardship.

“We don’t simply inherit freedom. We become stewards of it.”
– Lee Brower

The Unfinished Promise… America wasn’t finished in 1776, it was launched.

The Founding Fathers gave us the possibility of America. Whether that possibility continues to grow… depends on what you and I choose to do today. This Independence Day, don’t just celebrate freedom—participate in it. The possibilities envisioned by those who came before us won’t be realized by spectators. They will be realized by people like you and me, choosing every day to live with faith, character, courage, gratitude, and personal responsibility. That’s how possibility becomes legacy.

“The enemy of Freedom is arriving.”
– Lee Brower

“Possibility is God’s gift to us. Stewardship is our gift back.”
– Lee Brower

The Declaration of Independence declared possibility.
The Constitution organized possibility.
Every generation is invited to enlarge possibility.

Reposted on June 23, 2026: – The Miracle of Butterflies

Repost:

In the coming weeks, you are going to hear more about the miracle of butterflies, including something else your kids don’t know.  To kick it off, listen to this Meaningful Monday almost 10 years ago and let me know what you think.
 – Lee Brower

What can we learn about the change of a caterpillar into a butterfly?

Quote to remember: “If you don’t pet it, it won’t follow you home.”

Reposted on June 23, 2026: – The Miracle of Butterflies

“The people who believed in you before you believed in yourself weren’t wrong. They were just early.”
 — Lee Brower

“Drifting, without aim or purpose, is the first cause of failure.”

“Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose.”
 — Viktor Frankl

“The more we let God take us over, the more truly ourselves we become — because He made us. He invented us. He invented all the different people you and I were intended to be.”
 — C.S.Lewis